wpcom connection error on wordpress site health

I have tried reinstalling jetpack a few times following the troubleshooting guides provided and checked xmlrpc.php is working and in the right directory which was OK

The debug log showed the following error code 409 (conflict)

Date	Message
2021-03-23 15:50:51 	The validator will start the XML-RPC discovery process by using the URL 'https://www.panomart.net' as base URL.
2021-03-23 15:50:51 	The validator is going to the test following URL: https://www.panomart.net/xmlrpc.php by doing the XML-RPC call system.listMethods on it.
2021-03-23 15:50:51 	HTTP Request headers: Array ( [Content-Type] => text/xml [User-Agent] => WordPress XML-RPC Client/1.1 [Content-Length] => 158 [Accept] => */* )
2021-03-23 15:50:51 	XML-RPC Request:
2021-03-23 15:50:51 	

<?xml version="1.0"?>
<methodCall>
    <methodName>system.listMethods</methodName>
    <params>
        <param>
            <value>
                <string/>
            </value>
        </param>
    </params>
</methodCall>

2021-03-23 15:50:51 	Response details below ->
2021-03-23 15:50:51 	HTTP Response code: 409 - Conflict
2021-03-23 15:50:51 	HTTP Response headers: Requests_Utility_CaseInsensitiveDictionary Object ( [data:protected] => Array ( [date] => Tue, 23 Mar 2021 15:50:51 GMT [content-type] => text/html; charset=iso-8859-1 [content-length] => 83 [server] => Apache/2 ) )
2021-03-23 15:50:51 	The validator hasn't found the XML-RPC Endpoint at the URL: https://www.panomart.net/xmlrpc.php
2021-03-23 15:50:51 	The validator is going to downloading the HTML page available at the URL https://www.panomart.net Inside the HTML code should be available the link to the RSD document.
2021-03-23 15:50:51 	Doing a simple HTTP GET request on the following URL https://www.panomart.net
2021-03-23 15:50:51 	HTTP Request: Array ( [Accept] => text/html [User-Agent] => WordPress XML-RPC Client/1.1 )
2021-03-23 15:50:52 	HTTP Response Headers: Requests_Utility_CaseInsensitiveDictionary Object ( [data:protected] => Array ( [date] => Tue, 23 Mar 2021 15:50:52 GMT [content-type] => text/html; charset=UTF-8 [content-length] => 18310 [server] => Apache/2 [x-powered-by] => PHP/7.3.2 [link] => Array ( [0] => <https://www.panomart.net/index.php?rest_route=/>; rel="https://api.w.org/" [1] => <https://www.panomart.net/index.php?rest_route=/wp/v2/pages/69>; rel="alternate"; type="application/json" [2] => <https://wp.me/P4DBKF-17>; rel=shortlink ) [content-security-policy] => upgrade-insecure-requests; [strict-transport-security] => max-age=63072000; includeSubDomains [expect-ct] => enforce,max-age=2592000,report-uri="https://panomart.net" [x-xss-protection] => 1; mode=block [x-frame-options] => SAMEORIGIN [x-content-type-options] => nosniff [referrer-policy] => same-origin [feature-policy] => geolocation 'self'; vibrate 'none' ) )
2021-03-23 15:50:52 	HTTP Response Codes: Array ( [code] => 200 [message] => OK )
2021-03-23 15:50:52 	Parsing the HTML response document trying to match the RSD Endpoint declaration...
2021-03-23 15:50:52 	RSD document found at:https://www.panomart.net/xmlrpc.php?rsd
2021-03-23 15:50:52 	The RSD document was found at the following URL https://www.panomart.net/xmlrpc.php?rsd Downloading the RSD document content. Inside the RSD document there is the link to the XML-RPC endpoint.
2021-03-23 15:50:52 	Doing a simple HTTP GET request on the following URL https://www.panomart.net/xmlrpc.php?rsd
2021-03-23 15:50:52 	HTTP Request: Array ( [Accept] => text/xml [User-Agent] => WordPress XML-RPC Client/1.1 )
2021-03-23 15:50:52 	HTTP Response Headers: Requests_Utility_CaseInsensitiveDictionary Object ( [data:protected] => Array ( [date] => Tue, 23 Mar 2021 15:50:52 GMT [content-type] => text/html; charset=iso-8859-1 [content-length] => 83 [server] => Apache/2 ) )
2021-03-23 15:50:52 	HTTP Response Codes: Array ( [code] => 409 [message] => Conflict )

I am at a complete loss as t how to action this error xode though

I should add my site is running on a host provider (IPage) which obviously limits the changes I can make myself

Martin