Thank you for your effort in posting this. I still agree with wordguy, wordpres needs some kind of usergroup feature. There are plugins, but they lak support by other plugins (galler, etc).
A family that does not want all it’s gallery pictures spread over the internet cannot use wordpress. As the viewers can not be restricted by groups. Same with messages, sidebar items, etc.
I really hope this gets picked up because i’m really impressed with wordpress!
