Great @amanda and @jessepearson, I’m glad it sorts your problems out too. I marked the facebook plugin as not working here, http://wordpress.org/plugins/facebook/, not sure they care!
Have you come across the Facebook Auto Publish plugin? It seems to work and does the facebook/wp linkage for you. I have been going ’round in circles trying to get Facebook’s own plugin working today (with the same results as you all)
http://wordpress.org/plugins/facebook-auto-publish/
