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I ended up just building the menu manually:

<ul class="menu">
          <li class="<?php if ( is_page('2') ) { ?>current_page_item<?php } else { ?>page_item<?php } ?>"><a href="<?php echo get_settings('home'); ?>/">HOME</a></li>

          <li class="<?php if ( is_home() or is_archive() or is_single() or is_paged() or is_search() or (function_exists('is_tag') and is_tag()) ) { ?>current_page_item<?php } else { ?>page_item<?php } ?>"><a href="http://www.siteurl.com/blog/" title="title">BLOG</a></li>

          <li class="<?php if ( is_page('another-slug') ) { ?>current_page_item<?php } else { ?>page_item<?php } ?>"><a href="http://www.siteurl.com/another-page/" title="title">ANOTHER PAGE</a></li>

		  ...etc
</ul>