like i said above i added wordpress to my own website- i took the advise from this post:
http://wordpress.org/support/topic/error-while-upgrading-to-33?replies=15
i uploaded the wp-admin folder and i was magically able to log into the admin and my blog was once again visible. THOUGH…i really want to start work on changing the theme, but that is what seemed to start my problem to begin with. I’m just glad to have it displaying again!
best of luck!!
used some brilliant know how from the post below..