I’ve fixed the problem
Sorry for being a pain!
Under the discussion section I have the bolded one below checked
# Attempt to notify any Weblogs linked to from the article (slows down posting.)
# Allow link notifications from other Weblogs (pingbacks and trackbacks.)
# Allow people to post comments on the article
# Anyone posts a comment
# A comment is approved or declined
# An administrator must approve the comment (regardless of any matches below)
# User must fill out name and email
