before you reinstall, i think your problem is that your internet speed is slow.
here is my reasoning:
your friend at his place works great, that pretty much proves the installation is good. the photo you show does not have the text tools showing (just like the ones above this text window) which makes me believe the download speed from the web is too slow.
those tools are about the last thing delivered to your pc from your server when editing a post or page.
I realize my stupidity is showing, but what code specifically would I use to automatically grab the TITLE and URL for the plugin. I tried title,url and that is what it posts, i tried title within () and again that is what it posts. please an example if you would.