I just disabled them all except for kPicasa, and activated the default 2010 theme (except for the header picture) and the comment box is back, but there are no links on the side.
I guess I should give links to the pages that are actually having the problem, lol.
http://carrollhome.net/wedding/?page_id=4
http://carrollhome.net/wedding/?page_id=21
