ah, but that is what I did, I went to add media, pasted the youtube url and then saved it. In the edit post view it looked fine, but didn’t show up on the blog.
I have now added the code and it looks like this: http://seriouslyhilary.com/blog/?p=93 (the height is wrong)
ah sorry!
I copied it from your message and that was a link.
now I have just pasted the link and as before it just shows up in the editor and not on the post.
if I add the custom code, then it does show on the blog, but it is really small.
You´re right, there´s a problem with the last update and videos, please remove the other code and add this to the extra code CSS and I´ll update the theme asap.
I’m new to the whole WP thing, I am a bit worried about the new 4.0.1 update, it was not able to update automatically and I have downloaded the files but I am afraid to put in in my ftp incase it overwrites anything, I guess I should just make a back-up and go for it?