Title list

Hello,
http://www.nopattern.com

i am looking to have something similar to the website above.

where i have my sidebar show ALL titles to my posts.
also have the newest 5 highlighted a different color.

my current attempt:
http://www.contrecoups.com/work

for some reason i can only see one title, the latest.

and have those titles encased in this manner
http://www.agavegroup.com/?p=64