Please help!

I need help big time! I am looking for someone who can help me with the following issues regarding WP and BP. I am running both of the current versions as of 9/12/2011. I am using cPanel also.

Using Custom Community Theme. I have tried it with the site not logged in and the box is checked to allow users to sign up (I noticed that is where most people were having problems). I am open to trying a new theme if this works. 

 I am willing to donate to someone who can help me with my needs, I just need step by step (i.e screen shots of video tutorials) instruction. I need to have to site up and running by 10/1. Everything is completed on my site except to below I need help with ASAP.

1. Registration page redirects to homepage and no profile/registration form appears. What do I need to do in order for this to appear? 

2. Selecting login in, nothing appears. What do I need to do in order to make this appear?

3. Making it so different options appear once user is logged on. How do I do this?

4. Is there a way to create a custom “report/block user” option? If so, how?

5. Changing community/labels names? Is there a way to do this also?
 
6. What is the best security plug-in and/or privacy plug-in for members?

Thanks to whoever can help! Or provide links that gift direct instructions.