Issues logging in

Hi guys!

Ok I am going a little crazy here.

I had someone from elance (elance at the time) convert and edit everything to wordpress since I know little about wordpress.

The password he had was in elance messages and since it changed its name and I converted to freelancer instead of someone who gets hired a year ago I think it got rid of my messages.

So I tried to reset it using all 3 methods here:
http://support.hostgator.com/articles/how-to-reset-wordpress-password

unfortunately the first 2 dont work as in wordpress barely shows in my cpanel in any of those instructions.

Now the third one where I go into my databases kind of worked, I see 5 wordpress databases (some are from other sites on the server) and changed every database out of the wordpress 5 admins passwords to the same thing and it STILL wont let me login. I am not sure what I am doing wrong but my boss is pretty pissed and im basically buying time at this point till I can find the answer. I knew osmething was fishy when I loaded up the pages when I could login and everything is blank, like its not a normal install or something making it so I use to ask them to have to edit it.

Anyone able to lend some advice or help? It would be amazingly appreciated!

Thanks for your time!