Flash Navigation Header (I know…I know…)

My site is http://toquotetheraven.com

I know that wordpress dynamically makes the page so flash movies reload when you click on them. I believe the only way to fix this is with an iframe. I understand frames are frowned upon but I really want my flash header. My problem is I don’t know how to do this. I tried putting the header in an iframe but the iframe just reloads with the rest of the page.

Any help or direction to where I can get help would be greatly appreciated