Error message keeps coming up

I have been chatting with support in emails today. But the issue has not been resolved. I keep getting this message:
Something has gotten mixed up!

Your siteurl option is set up as http://helpfulhellion.com/wordpress, but your WordPress.com connection lists it as 0!
Your home option is set up as http://helpfulhellion.com/wordpress, but your WordPress.com connection lists it as 1!
The data listed above is not for my current site. Please disconnect, and then form a new connection to WordPress.com for this site using my current settings.
Ignore the difference. This is just a staging site for the real site referenced above.
That used to be my URL for this site before I changed it. Update the WordPress.com Cloud’s data to match my current settings.

I have seen others have had this problem by searching here in the forums, none of them seem to have this issue resolved. have Debugged, I have disconnected and reconnected so many times it is ridiculous. and it is fine for a bit and then happens again. Someone please help me…