Cannot correct menu order

Hi, I’m having some trouble with my new WordPress site. (http://www.losethatstress.com). The menu of my pages is not in the proper page order. (Welcome should be listed before Tell Me More.)

I know about the various plugins to set the page order and I know about the wp_list_pages (‘sort_column=menu_order’) trick but all the themes I’ve tried have been widgetized, and there isn’t a place to edit the wp_list_pages. It looks like they call dynamic_sidebar, which I can’t seem to find.

How can I control the order of my pages in a widegtized page? – or – Is this just a bug in the two themes that I’ve tried?

Thank you!

Jeannette