Annoying update glitches

Great page builder when it works. Every time there’s an update I activate it, and my menus disappear along with all of the background. I have to deactivate and reactivate it several times, and sometimes I just have to manually re-do everything. When I seek help from pro support, I get the same answers: “deactivate all your plugins” as if that isn’t the first tip on every list and I hadn’t thought of that myself. Thanks.