I basicly had to manually disable the plugin from the database. That was how I found the issue.
Thank you for the info. I just did some digging and found
wp-content/plugins/the-events-calendar/src/Tribe
There is List_Widget.php, I do not have the old file to computer but the note in the file sounds like it might just be what this plugin is looking for. Since there was such a drastic changes I am not sure if just point the file to the new location would solve the issue.