MichaelH

Also might point you here:
http://wordpress.org/support/topic/view-a-list-of-categories-displayed-on-the-current-page

Okay, I understand what you want to do, but you can’t get there with a single query_posts. You’d have to do 2 different queries, one to 4 posts from category 9129 that you want to offset, then using those post IDs construct a 2nd query with post__not_in.

Visit Administration > Plugins > Plugins then click on the Active filter.

Might need to look at how the theme author displays those pages. Typically they use the Appearances->Menus ability or they use the template tag, wp_list_pages(), in the theme’s header.php.

Related:
Stepping Into Template Tags
Stepping Into Templates
Template Hierarchy

Look in your list of activated plugins.

There isn’t a way to ‘associate’ Pages to categories in the admin. If you use categories on posts WordPress will automatically give you access to a display of all the posts in a particular category if you use something like the Category Widget.

You can also create a Page and use a plugin such as http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/list-category-posts/

Or the Pages article has the Page of Posts example where you can code it to say if this is Page X, display category Y posts.

Also if this is just an issue of putting both pages and categories in your navigation header see this:
How to easily display links to both Pages and Categories in the blog navigation header?

And finally some other threads you might like:
http://wordpress.org/tags/page_of_categories

I’ll address 1 and 2

1. Might be a setting that you need to ask your host about. For info:

this in php.ini
post_max_size = 20M
upload_max_filesize = 20M

or .htaccess
php_value upload_max_filesize 20M
php_value post_max_size 20M

2. You’d have to upload that media to your current host server. If you can do a bulk upload then look at using http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/add-from-server/

I’d recommend you consider Post Formats that are going to be released with Version 3.1.