Site Menu Changed After Going Live

Good Evening.
I am working on an adult website through WordPress that i did not create. It appears as the though the individual customized his own theme. The site has been looking fine (under construction), all the way up to the other day when we went live.

This is what the Menu should look like, as it appears on the Dashboard… [NSFW]
http://sexyscenarios.com/wp-content/uploads/shouldbe.jpg

But when we go live. It shows all the pages that exist, despite the fact that they aren’t turned on in the given menu.

This is the website itself live… http://sexyscenarios.com/ [NSFW]

While this is a screen shot of the menu as it looks live

http://sexyscenarios.com/wp-content/uploads/asitis.jpg

I read elsewhere that when WordPress last updated, there was some issues with the menu nav. I managed to tweak it somewhat from what i read.

Here’s the header.php that is relevant to the menu.

<header id=”header”>

<?php if (is_page( array(‘index’) ) ): ?>
<!– Show nothing –>
<?php else : ?>
<div id=”logo”><img src=”<?php echo get_template_directory_uri(); ?>/images/logo2.png” /></div>
<?php if(is_user_logged_in()){ ?>
<div id=”nav”><?php wp_nav_menu( array(‘menu’ => ‘Main Menu’ )); ?></div>
<?php } else { ?>
<div id=”nav”><?php wp_nav_menu( array(‘theme_location’ => ‘secondary’ )); ?></div>
<?php } ?>

<?php endif; ?>

And finally, this is how my menu is set up on the dashboard.
http://sexyscenarios.com/wp-content/uploads/menu.jpg

As you can see, i have the current menu point to the only three buttons i want, and not the other pages that are turned off. Any suggestions would be greatly appreciated. I tried to battle this for days myself… but i just can’t figure it out.

Thanks.