Permalink and 404 issue

Hi all,

I have annoying issue about permalinks.
Yes there is so many discussion about it, and I’ve read it, but no solution for my case. 🙁

Here is the condition:
0) The wordpress directory file is in /data/andotherstories/wordpress
1) .htaccess is writable, here is the content

# BEGIN WordPress
<IfModule mod_rewrite.c>
RewriteEngine On
RewriteBase /
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_FILENAME} !-f
RewriteCond %{REQUEST_FILENAME} !-d
RewriteRule . /index.php [L]
</IfModule>

# END WordPress

2) mod_rewrite is enabled (said my technician’s server)
3) AllowOverride is enabled (said my technician’s server)
4) Permalink structure wanted : /%year%/%monthnum%/%day%/%postname%/
5) I’ve tried to edit .htaccess by adding

ErrorDocument 404 /index.php?error=404

after

<IfModule mod_rewrite.c>

didn’t fix it.
6) I’ve tried to edit .htaccess by adding

Options +FollowSymLinks
<Directory /data/andotherstories/wordpress>
AllowOverride Options
</Directory>

at the top of the file, not fix it.
Even making 500 Internal server error page T_T

Please someone help me,
This annoying issue is make me to stay sit in front of my computer for more than 3 days.. T_T