Go to Admin > Write > Page
Whatever title you place on that page will appear beside the Home and About page links on the front end.
Thanks. Thats what I thought. Thats what I did but it doesnt appear at the top. There is probably a simple thing that I am doing wrong but cant think what.
For anybody reading this who has a similar problem do not think that this is simple.you need to go into the theme editor. Open the header file and fiddle about with it. The i.t guy at work had to insert the titles I wanted copy and paste stuff, get permission from the server guys to change the text. Extremely complicated.
Pages get added to the menu automatically only if they’re being implemented properly by using the wp_list_pages function.
Some themes use manual menus … might be the case with this theme.
I had this problem too and have resolved it. Go here for the solution
http://wordpress.org/support/topic/314247?replies=2