How to order Navigation

Hi, I’m a newbie so be patient:-)

My url is: http://thailandadoption.net/blog

I’m using a template and want to have a website with 5/7 static pages and then the blog page.

I added from admim > options > reading a new static page called “Home Page” this shows in my navigation on nav bar on right sidebar but it is 4th on the list how do I move the link button to permanently be on top?

Also related to above you will see on the link page above that on the nav bar I have a permanent nav header called “blog navigation” but when I click on the “home page” ;ink I loose this? So to summarize, how do I:

1. move home page link to top of nav bar?

2. change the text “blog navigation” on the nav button and replace it with just “Blog” ?

3. Lastly:-) Instead of having http://thailandadoption.net/blog/?page_id=5 in my browser for my “home page” how do change it to end with /blog/homepage ?

Thanks for the help…….silverpuma