You seem to have some problem with the Flash file you’re trying to play automatically. I just tried it and it still appears to be loading after some 60 sec.
I had a flash website on this domain but i deleted all of the flash files off by ftp how can they still be there ?
Check again. It looks like they are.
The site loads fine from http://www.gigabytenerd.com/index.php
Check for an index.html or index.htm (or for Windows IIS servers, default.htm) file in the root. Delete that, and also make sure that index.php is set as a valid index file.
OMG that was the propblem if this site had rep+ I would give you 1000 rep+ thanks soo much.