Sending Referrers/Options menu

for some reason, ALL OPTIONS show up in my options on one blog (I have two on my domain, and one is working perfectly)
http://www.k-l-a-s-s-y.com/midget (errors)
http://www.k-l-a-s-s-y.com/pineapple(fine)
this is what shows up in options:
stylesheet
template
time_format
uploads_use_yearmonth_folders
upload_path
users_can_register
use_balanceTags
use_linksupdate
use_smilies
use_trackback
what_to_show
wp_user_roles

(just a snippet, really)

im having issues with it going from http://www.k-l-a-s-s-y.com/etc to start and then any link within the midget blog going to k-l-a-s-s-y.com when i try to change it i get
Sorry, you need to enable sending referrers.

i’ve done everything the instructions have mentioned, and it still is not working.