Adding Login/Registration

I am sure that this has been asked and answered several times, but I am not finding it in the forum. Using mail poet. It I was able to set up a registration page that automatically sends a welcome page to the subscriber, however this does not provide for the subscriber to log on or log off the page. The theme I am using is the thinker light.

What I am trying to do is insert a login area that has the username box a password box a checkbox for remember me then a a button to press to login. I also want to add the lost password and sign out options.

I have gone to the appearance and widget areas and pushed the add button to add login to my sidebar. When I visit the site. It does show the login in the sidebar, but there are no boxes to fill in any additional information.

I am a newbie of all newbies and do not understand where the code is supposed to go. When I go to the meta-area and select the login. The only option it gives me is where to put it. I tell it sidebar, then the only other option I get is position in the sidebar. I truly appreciate any help any of you can give me and apologize if this is been answered before. Thanks for your help. My site is located at http://www.fibromyalgialivingwellwith.com