user-panel.php question

I use the plugin Theme my login everything works perfectly on one thing.
Now my question is how do I get the custom user links working on the front page in the log in box

Here below you can see the code that I use to login screen

<!--  \ sign box / -->
<?php
} else {
?>
<div class="signBox">

                    <h3><img src="<? bloginfo('template_directory'); ?>/images/img9.png" alt="">Aanmelden</h3>

                   <div class="inner">

                       <form action="<?php echo get_option('home'); ?>/wp-login.php" method="post">
                            <fieldset>
                                <input type="text" name="log" id="user_login" class="field" value="<?php echo attribute_escape(stripslashes($user_login)); ?>">
                                <input type="password" name="pwd" id="user_pass" class="field pass" value="">

                                <div class="bot">
                                    <input type="submit"  name="wp-submit" id="wp-submit"  class="button" value="<?php echo attribute_escape(__('Login')); ?>">
<input name="redirect_to" value="http://<?php echo $_SERVER['SERVER_NAME'] . $_SERVER['REQUEST_URI'] ?>" type="hidden">
                                  			<a href=" http://www.hulp-it.nl/site/registration " target="blank"class="link">Registreren</a>
<input type="hidden" name="redirect_to" value="<?php echo $_SERVER['REQUEST_URI']; ?>"/><br><a href="http://www.jouwhost.nl/wp-login.php?action=lostpassword" target="blank"class="link">Wachtwoord kwijt?</a>
                                </div>
                            </fieldset>
                        </form>

                    </div>

                </div>
<?php } ?>
                <!--  \ sign box / -->

Below you can see the code that I use when a user is login

<!--  / sign box \ -->
<?php
if (is_user_logged_in()) {
?> 

<!--  / sign box \ -->
<div class="signBox">

                    <h3><img src="<? bloginfo('template_directory'); ?>/images/img9.png" alt="">Welkom <?php echo $user_identity; ?>!</h3>

                    <div class="inner">

	<a href="<?php echo wp_logout_url( get_bloginfo('url') ); ?>"title="Logout" class="link2" >Uitloggen</a><br>
					<a href="http://www.hulp-it.nl/site/wp-admin/" class="link2">Adminpanel</a>

             </div>

                </div>
                <!--  \ sign box / -->

https://wordpress.org/plugins/theme-my-login/