Getting bullets in the navigation /menu in a a 2010 theme

This is the location of the them with using a ‘custom menu’ http://www.weddingsandeventsnc.com/event-planning/ (the one with the issues)

This is the location of the same theme using standard WP menus (no custom menu) http://ratest3.com/ (no issues)

This is a modified/child 2010 theme.

When the site is using the default WordPress menu system (no custom menu), the menu is fine (normal, as in the way it looks / behaves in a standard 2010 theme).

When I utilized custom menus then the menu becomes a bulleted list. I’ve never had this happen before.

I’ve looked at it with Firebug and Chrome’s inspector and it seems to be totally ignoring the

#access .menu-header ul,
div.menu ul {
list-style: none;
margin: 0;
}
I’ve disabled all plugins. The menu works fine (as expected) with a custom menu using the stock 2010 theme.

***Came back to add, I’ve looked at the html and this change in the div that holds the ‘access’ div is where it stems from.

When using custom menus:
<div class=”menu-menu-container”>
When using the standard WP menu
<div class=”menu”>
AND, not sure if this helps trouble shoot, but even if I go into APPEARANCES –> MENUS and simply create a custom menu but never select to use it, the menu gets formatted like a bulleted list.