Plugin: JW Player, Shadowbox, Youtube & iphone/ipad compatibility

Hi. I am trying to get JWPlayer to play a youtube video from within shadowbox. I have been playing with the code for waaaay too many hours. I have the thumbnail. You click on that and it loads a shadowbox video window with the jw symbol but then i get an error of #2035. I am sure the link is correct. If I adjust the rel player=flv to player=swf it works. But when set as flv, it does not work. swf does not work because then it will not load on the iphone/ipad. Help!! I am posting this on shadowbox and longtail forums as well, but need some perspective. am i missing something in the code? i have this on my html wordpress page:

<img src=”http://sugarpercussion.com/wp-content/uploads/2011/11/1.thumb_.jpg&#8221; alt=”” title=”Pre-Launch #1″ width=”100″ height=”100″ class=”alignnone size-full wp-image-360″ />

and the licensed jwplayer installed on the server. any ideas?!
THANK YOU!