[Plugin: Admin Menu] Incompatible with WP User Frontend

Hi,
Since I also use WordPress User Frontend which has the following features: “Post, Edit, Delete posts and edit profile without coming to backend”.
The problem now with Admin Menu is that the links Dashboard and Profile for all users (except admin ofcourse) points to the backend which is closed by plugin WP User Frontend. Seperate links are created by this plugin that are used on the frontend.

Anybody have any idea in which off the php files of the Admin Menu plugin, I can change this so the links Dashboard and Profile will point to the pages I / WP User Frontend set for the job on the frontend.

Hope anybody out there can help me. Please be clear where to change what, since I am not a programmer, just a user, who can make changes if knows where to do it.

Thank you and regards, Ron

http://wordpress.org/extend/plugins/sem-admin-menu/