Having trouble…

Yah so my co-owner of my clan (DGKz) dropped out of the clan and deleted our website. I got wordpress 3.0.2 installed and the theme eGamer however ive run into some issues…

I cant find where to enable the side-bar options eg categories, meta login info etc..

When i create a post in a category and make it “featured” the image shows however when I click it it says page not found

I have contact form 7 installed and working quite well actualy, and when I submit into this form it says the email was sent successfully however I havent recieved the email…

A working example can be found at http://www.dirtyghettokidz.com, I have more questions but ive been at this for hours and am quite burnt.. You can reach me either at support@dirtyghettokidz.com, or on my aim xtrgtpracticex or if you have steam xxtrgtprctcexx