Ah.. I got the menu pretty much working with the colour now.
So the biggest question now is how to add the home button.
cheers.
Never mind. Got it to work.
Don’t know how I did it with the colours. But for the home tab. Just copy the thematic-child theme (in the thematic theme folder) to your themes folder. Then activate the theme as you normally would. Then copy past the php stuff from http://themeshaper.com/guide-customizing-thematic-theme-framework/ (about the home link) into the functions.php And then you are done. (there is already a bit about //add home.. in the functions.php so you can delete that part).
YAY! back to work.