Including flowplayer (flowplayer.org). Call FPW (flowplayer-wrapper) by adding [fpw width=x height=x splash=pathtosplashimg.jpg]path_to_your_video[/fpw] to your content. A couple of options can be customized in the settings session. If you want to embed flickr.com slideshows, please have a look at http://www.ramgad.com/board/topic/37-plugins-fssw-fpw-hfw/. This version has only be tested with the commercial version of flowplayer, but shall work as well with the light version.
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