Problem with Widgets/Website

Hello,
i have very strange problem i came accros.

I dont see widgets in my apearence>widgets site…

On localhost at testing it was all okay but then i installed same thing on the server but the problem appeared.

Here is picture that show no widgets but only one:
http://img51.imageshack.us/img51/7171/picfr.jpg

on admin dashboard i see text that there is 48 widgets for the theme i use.

The problem that might be connected is when i want to install new theme or plugin i allways get prompted for ftp connection page.

I think that php.ini could be the problem cousing…
Here is my php.ini file: klik

I hope you can help me with this one!