Whenever my blog is linked by sites with high traffic -- thus giving me high traffic, my server/wordpress slows down and ultimately does not load. I am told that this is due to WordPress being MYSQL dependent and using all my connections up. I am being told that the situation would be better if my MYSQL databases/tables were optimized. I am asking what you would suggest for me to do to fix this so I don't have the slow load problem. If you can fix this please let me know -- I'll pay.