Widget RSS, SERPS and SEO Mix

Hello, first time user, first time poster.

I was once a godaddy website tonight guy. I recently changed because my competitors websites were leaving me in the dust with keyword generation into their URL directories (website tonight only allows html pages with roughly 20 characters).

Andyways, I hosted elsewhere and decided to go with WordPress for a standard website (not blog). I have had some difficulty getting my pages seen on the serps. I have waited a substantial amount of time I think to allow some generation up to page 100 but to no avail. I AM getting peculiar, yet GREAT results with my home page. I am noticing my Active Rain blog RSS sidebar widget is integrating search content into my home page description snippit. Although I am happy with this because it tells me to write more content and place it in my widget RSS feed, I am wondering about my overall SEO balance. If my RSS content is writing over my SEO title and tags, where are they? and where is my serps for my other pages?
Little help from a frustrated guy still in his PJ’s at 8pm, yesterday.