Want to change the look of COMMENT APPROVAL

Hello! In the blog that i am making, there is an issue with the comment approval. When you comment on a post, it posts the comment and then beside it it says: “This will not be published before its approved” (but in Swedish). Also that text is put beside EVERY each comment. But i dont want it to post the comment at all, id like the page to display all the other comments and on the bottom say: “Your post will be displayed when its approved”.

In short, i dont want unapproved comments to be shown. Here is a part of the code from the comments.php page (since i dont have the page uploaded to the net yet):

<?php foreach ($comments as $comment) : ?>

<b>” target=”_blank”><?php comment_author() ?></b>
<?php if ($comment->comment_approved >= ‘0’) : ?>
YOUR COMMENT WILL NOT BE DISPLAYED UNTIL ITS APPROVED!
<?php endif; ?>

<div class=”commentext”>
<font color=”#333333″ face=”arial” size=”2″><?php comment_text() ?></font>
<small class=”commentmetadata”>” title=””><?php comment_date(‘Y-m-d’) ?> <?php comment_time(‘H:i:s’) ?> <?php edit_comment_link(‘edit’,’ ‘,”); ?></small>

<font color=”#000000″ size=”2″>URL: ” target=”_blank”><u><?php comment_author_url() ?></u></font>

</div>

<?php
/* Changes every other comment to a different class */
$oddcomment = ( empty( $oddcomment ) ) ? ‘class=”alt” ‘ : ”;
?>

<?php endforeach; /* end for each comment */ ?>

<?php else : // this is displayed if there are no comments so far ?>

<?php if (‘open’ == $post->comment_status) : ?>
<!– If comments are open, but there are no comments. –>

<?php else : // comments are closed ?>
<!– If comments are closed. –>
<p class=”nocomments”>Comments are closed.</p>

<?php endif; ?>
<?php endif; ?>

THANKS FOR ALL HELP!