I am brand new at this. I am good about reading instructions but at times have to go after other details that I don't understand in the instructions. I am in another forum that helps me tremendously but I think I have goofed.
I have two self-hosted blogs. Both were set up through my c panel. The second one: http://therapistwithbipolar.com I just set up. No posts. But I needed to upgrade. I attempted on this one. Backed up my database. Examined all the files. Mistake #1 - in deleting and uploading I went through my FTP program on my computer not the cPanel.
I thought everything was fine. Don't think it is. A friend said http://therapistwithbipolar.com doesn't exist even though it does on my computer.
When I went to change my header (been working on this for 4 days)it said it did not clear security. Using Kubrick because of the custom header option. Went to Presentations>Themes>Custom Header