I am new to WP and have been looking for the solution to this for a while.
I am using the Mantra theme, not tied to it but it looks close to what I want. I created some pages to be main 'header' links.
I also want a sidebox of a few links which would be simple pages.
I cannot figure how to exclude pages from the main header, I have read everything about wp_list_pages but I cannot see where to apply it in my theme. Also if pages are excluded how then would I add it to the sidebox?
Confused so any help useful.