wow, you need to chill. im really sorry i left of the little smiley after the "we arent mindreaders" remark, so you wouldnt trip out.
i think anyone that wants to help you any further is still waiting for the link.
and ftr, popups arent necessarily 'infections', their nuisances. nusiances that most of us are able to control without having someone ask questions while censoring the page. Youve provided more than enough "warning" that anyone clicking knows what to expect.
If you site was indeed compromised, and you dont want to provide any more info thats fine -- and then here's my best advice:
Ive helped more than 1 person in similar situtations privately, and posted about one such instance here.
it turns out his wp-config.php had been altered.
If you dont find enough help here, and cant find the problem, I am more than willing to to help you individually, and you can contact me via my blog.