I connected the form and finally got the lists to display. On the form design page I have added a custom field to have an "ask a question'..
When I hit submit the emails are being added to constant contact but there are two problems:
1) What ever is entered in the 'ask a question field gets lost. That message does not seem to get received anywhere
2) When the confirmation email is received to confirm which list you are subscribed to, no matter which list is chosen it always just says 'no interests'. Even though in constant contact they are being added to the correct list.