ok i went over to wordpress.com and this is what they replied:
You are posting to the wrong support forum. We do not provide support for WordPress.org installs here. We provide support only for free hosted WordPress.com blogs here and no others.
WordPress.com and WordPress.org are completely separate and have separate logins. If you don't have a username account at WordPress.ORG click http://wordpress.org/support/ and register one on the top right hand corner of the page that opens, so you can post to the support forums there and receive advice from WordPress.ORG bloggers.
I just need for someone to help me...is there a number I can call? I was told WordPress (Org or Com) was helpful but that is NOT what I am getting right now. I feel like I'm going in circles.