Thanks for the reply...I'm decently new to this but I don't think that I'm "that" nub, but I'm sure you can't be too sure with anyone on the web :)
I have tried to add it in the Widgets menu, unfortunately its doesn't allow me to click "Add" as if it is already chosen. My Dashboard says I have 6 widgets chosen (calendar, archives, blogroll, meta, recent posts, tag clouds). Unfortunately it only show 3 (recent posts, meta, archives) in my "sidebar"...and there isn't another "sidebar" in the drop down menu...
I hope I've explained it better...thank you for your time.