There are a multitude of potential issues here. I’ll try to help, but it may require some additional information.
First, are you running a subdomain or a subdirectory multisite?
And, are you using domain mapping for your sub-sites?
@bethannon1, I use subdomains,
Domain mapping no I do not use
There are a number of SMTP plugins. I’m not familiar with the one that you mentioned so I can only give general suggestions about it.
Have you network activated this plugin or only activated it on a single site basis?
I’m thinking that it probably needs to be activated on a single site basis. If you network deactivate this plugin, then go into the main site dashboard and activate this plugin there, does it send emails for you?
These plugins might be helpful in testing:
https://wordpress.org/plugins/wp-mail-log/
https://wordpress.org/plugins/check-email/
https://wordpress.org/plugins/email-cop/