Ok... fixed the problem and the "set visibility" button is now visible and working. However, only the first 10 or so pages, categories, posts show up. Is there anyway to see all the categories at least?
Also, there are a few of my many pages that I want all the widgets invisible and a few widgets visible only on those pages. I'm working on getting the other widgets off, but when I created a widget for those pages only and put them in the widget line up (not 1st, but about 4th) they don't show up. Is it because the change takes time or do I need to put the unique widget in a particular spot on the line up?
If you look, you will see that most of the ads are gone from the obituary pages, but the garden picture I want there is still not there.