I have another problem with your plug in but figured it's better if it gets its own thread.
The FB login buttons don't show up at all upon the first visit to my page (I have several login widgets in my sidebar for testing purposes but would ultimately use "theme my login").
they only show up when I click on the normal login button without entering any credentials first, which changes the url to:
then they show up just fine with any login widget I use.
Thanks for any help!
the "instance=1" part isn't even needed; as long as the url ends in "/?action=login" the log in button shows up, but never without it.
How can I solve it so that it always shows up?