Just a great combo tested.
Embedly + Oembed 4 BP should= All Embedly content in BP Forum. Yay.
Meetup.com pics in forum with Oembed 4 BP installed without Embedly = no show
Break.com videos " " = no show
Slideshare.com presentation in forum with Embedly installed without Oembed 4 BP = no show
Ustream video in regular blog post still worked.