If I select "exclude" blog author, then not only does it exclude my replies, but it also excludes many others. As far as I can tell it is not just comments that i have replied to that it leaves - it is some other problem, as there are 'standalone' comments being left out.
I have not excluded any categories. I have tried enableing and disabling cache - it is not that.
I even tried deleting the cache option just in case - not that either.
I have noticed this for a while that it seems a bit sporadic about which comments it shows - assumed it was the cache, but no it is not that.