We have modified the name of our comments to 'Online Condolences'. Posts are actually obituaries and visitors are encouraged to leave their online condolences (comments) and we forward them to the family of the deceased.
It's very important these condolences (comments) are kept private; however, when a visitor submits a condolence (comment) it appears it has been posted publicly but says 'waiting moderation'.
I know the visitor is the only one that can see this but they think these comments are public.
How can I modify this so they don't see their comments at all while waiting for moderation?
Thanks in advance for your help,