you really should have setup a new topic for this... In any case I have had a look at your problem.
There is not a way around this that I know of, so you will either have to find another video player plugin or make some big changes to how AAPL works so that you can automate this process.
Once thing you could do though is disable AAPL when loading a page that has a video such as this on it, you can do this by adding part of the url into the ignore field in the admin interface.
so I noticed all videos were under /sign-language/ - if you add that into the ignore box after a , then it will ignore all links that contain that text.