OOOPS! SORRY- can someone move this to a better category? My fault. I'm tired. :)
OK, I'm so proud! I figured out how to get a sub menu to display ONLY if there are children of the page. :)
My problem is now, that when viewing a child page, I want the menu to still appear for all children pages under that parent. That's where I get stuck, and it's 4:30 am, and my eyes are fried. :P
Example is here: http://www.tuesdaytourney.com/about/
Top of the sidebar: 'about' has 3 children pages. When you click on 1 of those 3 children pages though, the menu disappears (because there are no children of that child, I know). I'd like the menu to still show all 3 children pages of the overall parent page whenever viewing any of the children pages within it.
Code I used to display the children pages IF they exist is found here: http://codex.wordpress.org/Template_Tags/wp_list_pages#List_Child_Pages
Thanks in advance.